feat: select the device when multiple devices available for same ep + device combination

[xieofxie]

consider using device.metadata.DxgiAdapterNumber https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/blob/e858164c9fbdb61d5d0be980d6a2a0c161db3584/onnxruntime/core/platform/windows/device_discovery.cc#L371

So also display it in winml sys

[xieofxie]

LUID is better for future work